Hail to the King!

My fantasy to become a King and ruler of a nation became a reality. I was a King for one day! I was crowned King of the Union High School of Manila 2008 International Grand Reunion at the Crown Plaza in Niagara Falls, Canada. I was anointed with oil and had a gold crown placed on my head in a lavish Gala Night before more than 100 guests. As the new monarch, I was called upon to rule “wisely, justly and truly. When I emerged at the ballroom, the guests line the route to my throne and cheered. I was accompanied by Her Royal Highness, Queen Mila Abesamis-Emerson.

I wore a black silk shirt, a 3-inch gold medallion, and a three-meter-long gold-colored cape. The ceremony was followed by the traditional dancing by the King and Queen, and later followed by a dance exhibition by Duke Isagani and Lady Sally Gregorio followed by Lady Jocelyn Oliveros-Ronquillo and Duke Harlan Ragay.
Awesome! Indeed awesome! That’s how I would describe the 4-day reunion of the graduates of the Union High School of Manila (UHSM) hosted by Ontario-based UHSM alumni. Walang pabida. Walang martyr or bayani na inaako or ginagawa ang lahat ng trabaho. I know the “martyrs” meant well. But there should be delegation of duties.

Headed by Olivia Galang-Daantos and Pete Ignacio, the members of the organizing committee were Willie Damian, Mike Resposo, Estela Ignacio-Jimenez, Pete Ignacio, Lingkod Juane, Jr. Beth Morales-Sanvictores, Lorna Bautista-Parcon, Joel Caes, Noel Esguerra, Esther Esguerra-Salangsang, James Chanco, Jay Jainga, Elsa Ignacio-Gamelo, Mina Damian-Bote. According to Jay Jainga, their spouses provided the needed boost to the holding of the reunion. Although unseen and playing vital roles in the background, their spouses have given the necessary morale and emotional support for the team members to excel in the tasks demanded of them. I personally saw every member of the organizing committee pitched in to make the event a success. I saw them all work from day one to closing day of the celebration. Future grand reunion should learn from this Ontario-based alumni organizing group how to work as a team.

On Day 1, our attire was our school uniform. The men wore white shirt and khaki pants while the women wore white blouse and sky blue skirt with matching white socks and black shoes. Line dancing was the order of the day.

On Day 2, we had a picnic in the morning at the Queenston Heights Park, Pavillion Site. We had fun playing games that brought back memories of our high school days. In the evening, we wore
our generation attire. I wore a denim bell bottom pants, poncho shirt, and an elevated (platform) shoes. The Oliveros Gang won the 1st prize for their attire but I was given a special prize for my shoes.

In the morning of Day 3, the reunion attendees were given the opportunity to enjoy the opportunities to experience first hand the Canadian (Canuck) way of life through tours around Niagara and neighboring communities, and other leisure activities. Niagara, with its world-famous majestic waterfalls, exciting nightlife, vibrant business centers, enthralling theme parks, challenging golf courses and special attractions for nature-lovers, is one of the world’s most ideal settings for school reunions and other social and leisure events, where people from various places are expected to congregate in grand scale.

The Gala Night on Day 3 was a time for the ladies to display their evening gowns and “bling-bling.” I wore a yellow see-through barong with white embroidery accented by a 3-inch gold medallion from Saudi. I had “bling-bling” too that caught the attention of Pastor Badong. .

Day 4 – Adieu! After breakfast, it was time to praise God for all the blessings that we continue to receive. Pastor Badong’s message centered on our school’s motto: “Faith, Character, and Service.” When we sang “How Great Thou Art,” I can’t help but shed tears of joy. Naramdaman ko na lamang ang mainit na luha na dumadaloy sa aking mga pisngi. It was time to bid Adieu. It was time to say goodbye and until we meet again. And until we meet again!

As the Premier minister de l’Ontario, Dalton McGuinty, said in his message to the alumni, “the organizers should take pride in their hard work and commitment to making this celebration a memorable one for all the Unionites.”

Mabuhay!

A Celebration of Summer

Summer is something to revel about especially for those of us living in cold climates. The long days of summer invite us to break out of our routine, to relax in the sunshine and simply enjoy living. For most people, the longest day of summer means a barbecue, football match or trouble getting the kids to bed. You know it’s summer in Washington Stateof delicious food filters through the air. It’s time for camping, picnics, weddings, birthdays, and grand balls. Seattle folks sure know how to feel good about themselves, let their hair down and party, party, party. They never seem to stop and they seem to have this uncanny ability not to let their problems get the best of them.

Lately I noticed that the leaves in my backyard are starting to fall. The falling leaves signal the coming of the cold season. But I have a long list of activities that have just concluded and more to come. Seattlelites are beating the coming end of summer. I will share with you my stories about the parties I’ve attended as well as the other coming events before summer 2008 comes to an end. We all look forward to enjoying the rest of summer and make the most of the sunshine.

Josie & Erly Leyva Celebrates 45^th Wedding Anniversary

It gives me always the pleasure of writing about couples who kept their promise to remain together “till death do us part.” We always hear couples filing for divorce and this happens even to the best of couples. Divorce is out of Erly’s and Josie’s mind. True they have had arguments typical of a married couple but that’s not enough reason to file a divorce. They will keep their vows for as long as they live, so they say.

Erly, an accountant, works for the City of Seattle while Josie keeps herself busy with her real estate business. Josie is a very active board member of the Filipino Community of Seattle. She is one those responsible in serving good food on Mondays as part of the FCS nutrition program. The couple celebrated their 45^th Wedding Anniversary with a dinner-dance party at the FCS.

Prince Onting Pendatum Celebrates 65^th Birthday

Those who do not know Prince Onting Pendatum of Arabic Muslim descent, is also known as the “Dancing Prince.” Ponciano (Onting) Paalisbo celebrated his 65^th birthday and official retirement with a grand party at the Filipino Community Center on August 2, 2008.

When Onting came out of the ballroom with an entourage of selected friends in black and white outfits, he was garbed in an all-white ceremonial outfit. After performing the Muslim rituals, Onting offered a solemn prayer. This was followed by a special dance by the celebrant and entourage. After dinner, the guests were entertained by a dance exhibition by Wilson and AJ, Kaleigh Alejaga Lang and Jesse, Adonis and Ellen.

Guests danced the night away with the music provided by RetroZone.

22^nd Annual FAANPS Grand Ball

The Filipino-American community of Everett marked the 22^nd anniversary of the Filipino American Association of North Puget Sound (FAANPS) with a grand ball held at the U.S. Naval Station on August 16, 2008. It was an evening dedicated to the accomplishments of FAANPS students. Scholarship awards, chaired by Julie Sharp, were given to Athena Galdones, Lucas James, and Alleyna Morales. Andrew Viray, a 2003 scholarship awardee, did a noble act by donating back the scholarship money he received in 2003 to motivate future awardees to do the same and help the organization in funding its scholarship program.

In the history of FAANPS, Alan Viray is the first to hold the position of President for two terms. His leadership brought unity and team work in the Association. He will be succeeded by Joe Consul as FAANPS president in 2009.

Live music was provided by the Hardline Band. Incidentally, I’ve always wanted to feature the Hardline Band in my column but I never had the chance to do so. It was very timely that the Hardline band played at the FAANPS grand ball. My table was near the band so I was able to talk to the male vocalist, Andre.

The Hardline Band is very popular with the Filipinos who frequent the Tulalip Casino and the Muckleshoot Casino where they are normally scheduled on weekends. The group plays set selections of favorite and popular Latin, salsa, rock classics and Top 40.

The Hardline Band is the ultimate high energy party band playing a diverse mix of popular dance music drawing from the hits of 70’s through the 90’s to current hits of today. On Sunday, August 31, the band played at the Red Wind Casino’s Coho Cabaret. The cabaret is Red Wind Casino’s premier show place for entertainment events. The ambience of true cabaret experience enhances the enjoyment of live music shows. Visit Coho Cabaret. Tulalip Casino, or Muckleshoot Casino and have a fun time with the Hardline Band.

Katrina Llorente Turns 18

Katrina shared her thoughts with a beautiful quote, “Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away.” When Katrina celebrated her birthday with a debutante’s ball at the China Harbor on August 29, 2008, she would remember the event as very memorable and really took her breath away. She could not ask for more. Her parents, Jojo and Myrna Llorente made sure their daughter celebrates her debutante’s ball in accordance with the Filipino tradition to mark Katrina’s transition to womanhood.

Katrina, with her escort, Emmanuel Matthews, and parents, Jojo and Myrna, came out of the ballroom in a very elegant evening gown. The debutante’s debut is not complete without the traditional Cotillion, 18 roses, 18 candles and presentation of 18 Treasures, and the father and daughter dance,.

Katrina recently graduated high school from Henry M. Jackson High School. She plans to earn a degree in nursing to follow her mother’s footsteps. However, she plans to pursue further studies in Pediatrics. Katrina’s mom comes from Pangasinan while her dad is a bicolano. Katrina has a very strong bond with her brother, Christopher.

At the conclusion of the program, it was time for Katrina to say “thank you” to all those who made her birthday celebration a memorable evening. The well-coordinated program was managed by Wimar Magsino. Tita Ganda and Joie were the evening’s hosts.

LUAU FUNDRAISER BY IDIC

The social hall of the United Methodist Church (UMC) in South Seattle transformed into a Hawaiian setting last Friday, August 22. The International Drop-In Center (IDIC) held its annual Luau fundraiser. The UMC social hall was bursting with colors. Guests came in their colorful Hawaiian outfit with matching leis. As I partake of the food, I was reminded of the song, “Killing me Softly.” Lots of lechon, meatballs, and desserts ready to invade my health system.

IDIC is a non-profit organization. Under the leadership of its Executive Director Sluggo Rigor, the Center provides a wide range of programs such assistance with the preparation of legal documents, health advice, fitness and nutrition programs. IDIC provides seminars and workshops of interest to senior citizens such as citizenship classes, preparation of government documents like immigration and naturalization requirements.

The success of the Luau fundraiser was the product of the coordinated efforts of the IDIC members with Dolly Castillo and Lumen Pagulayan as event coordinators.

It’s Picnic Time

When the cold season comes, I will be missing the fun of camping and picnics. Different Fil- Am groups are trying to beat the end of summer as they hold their annual picnic celebration. The Tagalog Circle headed by President Rudy dela Cruz had its annual summer picnic at the Cedar Riverview Park in Renton on August 9. The Coalition of Filipino American Organizations (COFAO) held its annual summer picnic at the Gene Coloun Park in Renton on Saturday, August 23. Not to be outdone, FAANPS capped the picnic celebration last Saturday, August 30 at the Legion Park in North Everett. One thing common in all the picnics I attended is the food – enormous food. When it’s time to go home, we still have lots of “food to go.” But it’s not all food. There were parlor games, entertainment, and even “mahjong.” What a treat! See you next year for another celebration of summer!

It’s Summer Time in Seattle

Tag-init na naman! Sa iba’t ibang bahagi ng America, gaya ng California, marami ang umaangal sa tindi ng init ng panahon. But not in Seattle. Kung sabagay, kapag umabot na ng 70’s ang temperatura sa Seattle, naguumpisa ng magreklamo sa init ang mga tao. Tumira kaya sila sa Pinas para malaman nila ang tunay na kahulugan ng “Tag-init na naman.”

It’s summer time again in Seattle. Keeping children occupied when they are off from school is the main goal of many parents. It’s time for picnics, camping, banquets and balls. Seattle residents are notorious outdoors enthusiasts. They enjoy hiking, mountain-biking, sailing, boating and much more. Being an ocean-front city, Seattle offers numerous world class recreation activities.

Pista sa Nayon

Summer in Seattle also means that “Pista sa Nayon” can’t be that far away. In the previous issue of One Philippines, I invited you to visit our booth to pick up your current issue of One Philippines as well as place your order for Direct TV (TFC & GMA Pinoy TV) or Clearwire. Pista sa Nayon, a Filipino American Fiesta, has been a part of Seattle’s Seafair events. This will be held on Sunday, July 26, 2008 at the Seaward Park.

Pista sa Nayon is celebrating its 19^th year of bringing the community together and honoring the cultural heritage of Filipino Americans, preserving traditions and artistry for future generations. The festival features music, dance, live entertainment, Filipino cuisine, food booths, arts and crafts, community based cultural booths and contemporary and traditional repertoire by singers, dancers and musicians.

FAANPS Camping at Jim Creek

The Filipino American Association of North Puget Sound (FAANPS) held its annual 3-day camping last weekend at Jim Creek in Arlington, Washington. I was there during the “eating time.” I could not resist the invitation because I was told they would have the traditional cooking of lechon --- meaning hours of cooking. It was worth waiting for the lechon to be cooked. The “balat” was crispy and the meat was juicy.

Camping is a time for family bonding. The kids were fun to watch as they participated in the different parlor games. There were raffle prizes and I was one of the winners. I was told there would be line dancing but I had to leave for another party. By the way, Binibining Pilipinas -Universe 1996, Aileen, graced the occasion. She came with her mother and two kids. I had the pleasure of meeting her but I did not have much time to talk to her.

FAANPS president, Alan Viray, invited me to the association’s annual grand ball on Saturday, August 16, 2008. The grand ball is in celebration of FAANPS’ 22^nd year anniversary as well as to recognize the 2008 high school graduates and award scholarships to the outstanding graduates. This year’s theme is “Salute to the Graduate.”

Filipino-American Friendship Day

During my growing years, the Philippines celebrated Independence Day on July 4^th. Former President Diosdado Macapagal moved it to June 12, the date on which the Philippines declared independence from Spain 1898. Filipino-American Friendship Day, July 4^th, is a day in the Philippines designated by President Macapagal to commemorate the liberation of the country by joint Filipino and American forces from the Japanese occupation at the end of World War II.

In Washington, D.C., the Filipino-American Friendship Day was celebrated with a parade. Migrant Heritage Commission Executive Directors Grace Valera-Jaramillo and Jesse Gatchalian led the celebration. One of the favorites during the parade was the participation of the officers and members of BIMAAK DC and Benguet 13 led by their respective Presidents Connie Alfrido and Elvis Cagas.

Mr. Pure Energy Did It Again

Gary Valenciano once more showed his Washington audience that he is still the holder of the title, “Mr. Pure Energy.” His recent concert at the Comcast Arena in Everett, Washington was a big hit. Although the show started an hour late, the audience was compensated by an extended show with Gary serenading the audience with several love songs. Every time the audience started to leave the hall, they would go back to their seats when Gary started singing another number. For a while, I thought Gary would not stop singing to the delight of his audience.
Gary greeted all the fathers in the audience a happy father’s day. With Gary’s Seattle concert coinciding with Father’s Day, it seems especially fitting that he should have both his equally talented sons, Gabriel and Paolo, with him onstage. In keeping with Gary’s Christian devotion, Father’s Day also represents Mr. Pure Energy’s love for the Divine Father to Whom he has always acknowledged as the source of his success and inspiration.
But for many of us, Gary himself has become our significant inspiration – as a man who beat personal odds to climb to the top of his field, as a devoted father to three wonderful children, as a husband to wife Angeli, and as a symbol of what one can continue to achieve when we pair talent with hard work, generosity and a humble heart.
Gary’s concert would not have been complete without his friend, Martin Nievera, doing some numbers with him. Martin is equally popular with the audience. Gary told the audience that if you are going to ask him, Martin Nievera is the real “Mr. Pure Energy.” At the ASAP shows, Martin is filled with energy even during commercial breaks.

Miko Aytona
One of the guests of Gary V. that caught my attention was Miko Aytona. He is new in the entertainment industry but his evening performance was impressive. He could sing and dance as well. We rarely see Miko in TFC shows because he is from GMA 7. He is one of the co-hosts of Kuya Germs in “Walang Tulugan” and SOP on Sundays.
Miko started schooling at the La Salle University. For a while, he’s with the University of the Philippines’ Theater and Arts and then transferred to Asian Institute for Distance Education in Makati. By the way, Miko is 19 years old. He celebrated his birthday last June 22. He’s so excited for the opportunity to visit Disneyland and Universal Studio in California. Miko told me he will visit his relatives in Chicago before proceeding home.

Joanne Laurel: The Debutante

Those who attended recently the birthday celebration of Joanne Laurel would describe her as a princess or a Cinderella but a more fitting Filipino description would be “bongga ka ‘day,” Joanne looked very regal in her long pink gown with matching jewelry that would “bling-bling” during the night. She changed her attire 3 times during the evening: 2 long gowns, 1 evening dress, and jeans for her hip-hop dance. Joanne’s hair-do was specially done for her by Danny De Vega. The tiara that Joanne wore that night gave her more the princess looks. Danny was commissioned to do Joanne’s hair and make-up including her cotillion court.

I witnessed Joanne grew up to what she is now. She is my niece, the daughter of Joel and Susie Laurel. I used to take her to her pre-school in West Covina, California when she was 6 years old.

From California, we moved to Washington State and made Seattle our home. Joanne went to Blanchet High School. And now she is in college. She goes to the University of Washington with an ambition of becoming a Pharmacist. With Joanne celebrating her 18th birthday reminds me that I am now aging. That’s okay. I am happy to be part of Joanne’s life.
The debutante’s ball in Filipino tradition is a rite of passage, a mark of a girl’s transition to womanhood. The custom traces its roots to 300 years of Spanish colonial rule in the Philippines. Joanne’s debut was elaborately planned. It was held at the Sheraton Hotel in downtown Seattle. Guests came as far as the Philippines and other parts of the United States. It was sort of a reunion for my family. An exquisite plated menu, with fillet mignon and sea bass as the dinner entrée, was served as the Heartlight Band played popular airs. Tess Mendoza, Edgar Mesina, and Eva Sabiniano sang several ballads.
The traditional Cotillion ushered the evening’s ballroom dancing. Joanne’s court was first to come out of the ballroom to introduce the debutante, escorted by her parents, Joel and Susie. Finally, the entrance of Joanne’s escort, Willimark Obenza, signaled the start of the cotillion which incorporated a series of charming Viennese waltzes. And indeed these 9 young Filipina descent ladies in the peak of their youth is a picture of loveliness, of health, of self-assurance, of boundless expectations, and full of joie de vivre.

The debutante’s ball included a formal presentation of 18 roses and 18 candles to Joanne from her family and friends, a symbol of the 18 years of her life. Jojo Rabara rendered a special song as Joanne and her father danced. The cotillion court entertained the guests with choreographed dance numbers followed by the vocal performance of Michelle Valle and Nicole Banal. At the end of the program, it was time for Joanne to say “thank you” to all those who made the party possible, particularly her parents. It was a touching scene when Joanne gave Joel and Susie a hug. The party concluded with hours of dancing enjoyed by all the guests, adults as well as teenagers.
My visiting family from the Philippines and Los Angeles, California had an extended party before going back home. We were treated by the Laurels to an Argosy Cruise. The cruise has a live narration, wonderful views and feature Seattle’s famous places like Bill Gates’ residence. After the cruise, we had dinner at the Laurels. It was eating time again – Dungeness crabs, baked salmon, fresh oysters, BBQ steak, and clam soup. We were all tired but happy.
For Joanne’s mother, the event was an opportunity to polish an offspring’s social skills, remind her of her heritage and relive one’s own dreams. For Joanne’s father, it’s time to take proud spin around the dance floor with the lovely young woman who stole his heart the day she was born and has been tugging at its strings most of the time since. For both Joel and Susie, it’s also a time to write checks. Lots of checks.

For Joanne, I am sure it was an event in her life that she would remember for a long, long time. It will be a treasured memory.

One Philippines Grand Matriarch Celebrates 80th Birthday

Felisa Hilotin, mother of One Philippines publisher, John Hilotin, celebrated on May 16, 2008 her 80^th birthday. John and her sister, Maricel, surprised her mother (Mama Felisa) with a big bash at the Filipino Community Center. Mama Felisa was ushered to the ballroom by her sister and family. She was given a bouquet by 2008 Queen of the Filipino Community Center, Queen Asuncion while the “Highlight Band” played the birthday song. Tez Mendoza and Edgar Mesina were the band’s vocalists. The band played old time favorites to the delight of the evening’s guests.

The Filipinas Performing Arts of Washington (FPAWS) entertained the guests with Filipino Folk Dances. Their opening number was Silong sa Gandingan, a dance that originated from the island of Mindanao. This was followed by Estudiantina, a favorite dance in social gatherings by young women who live in the catholic dorms and attend catholic schools. The finale was one of our famous dances from the rural areas, the Tinikling. This dance imitates the hopping and running of the bird “tikling” as they run over branches or dodge bamboo traps set by farmers.

Incidentally, the dance group under the direction of Juliet Cheattle is now preparing for their trip to Anchorage, Alaska. The group will perform and conduct workshops at the 12^th Biennial National Conference of the Filipino American National Historical Society which will be held at the Anchorage Hilton Hotel from July 3 to 5, 2008. If you would like to help the kids raise funds to defray the cost of transportation, accommodations, meals and educational activities during their visit to Anchorage, you may send your donation to FPAWS. Your donation is tax deductible.

The Fil-Am Association of Oak Harbor had a special number for Mama Felisa. The mothers and their daughters of Oak Harbor presented one of the Filipino favorite dances, “Carinosa.” It was a well applauded number during the evening.

As a surprise number, “Kontagious, led by Albee Abigania, did a hip-hop number. Eva Sabiniano and Julien Mella serenaded Mama Felisa with love songs. And to open the evening’s dancing, John danced with her mother to the tune of “Can I have this Dance.” The celebration was capped by the blowing of birthday candles and a “thank you” message from the overwhelmingly happy celebrant, Felisa Hilotin.

Fr. Tolang Celebrates Golden Jubilee of Priesthood

Immaculate Conception Church honored 16 Filipino Americans as Nine O’clock VIPs (Very Immaculate Pinoys). The honorees have been participating in the 9:00 a.m. Sunday Mass at the Immaculate Conception Church in Seattle for years – even decades for those who grew up in the parish.

For Fr. Tolang, the award was a very special occasion. He’s celebrating his Golden Jubilee of Priesthood. The citation was presented during the Filipino American History Month.

The event was very festive. There were cultural dances, songs, and “Pabitin.” Community leaders gave inspirational messages expressing appreciation for Fr. Tolang’s community service.

Malate, Manila

Whenever I am in the Philippines, I never miss visiting Malate, Manila. The word Malate is believed to have stemmed from the corruption of the Tagalog word “ma-alat,” meaning “salty.” Legends have it that tidewaters from Manila Bay flowed inland as far as where the Remedios Circle is presently located.

On February 7, 2008 I was the honored guest at the grand opening of Socialista, a night club-restaurant owned and operated by Yoko and Joseph “Jong” Garcia. Socialista brings back the glamour of Remedios, Malate. For those who grew up during my time, you will recall that Remedios Malate is the home to 604 Café Gallery, formerly the Penguin Café, a well-loved place by artists. Around Remedios Circle, the creations of Larry Cruz, arguably Manila’s most successful restaurateur, predominate and each with a theme of its own. Café Adriatico is known for Spanish-based Filipino food and refined ambience, Café Havana for Cuban cooking and Hemingway-inspired cigar room, Bistro Remedios for regional Filipino delicacies, Guernicas for traditional Spanish food, and Larry’s Bar as a hangout of rich kids.

On the other side of the Remedios Circle is the Remedios extension, along which can be found Arkadia, where you can listen to some live musical acts over pizza. The Red Crab serves seafood and steaks while Tia Maria has the best Tex-Mex flavors. Dematisse is for Italian snacks while Café El Dorado is for Spanish ones.

On February 7, 2008 I was the honored guest at the grand opening of Socialista, a night club-restaurant owned and operated by Yoko and Joseph “Jong” Garcia. At the last minute, I was requested by Jong to do the ribbon cutting in the absence of Vice Mayor Isko Moreno. I was told the Vice Mayor had to attend a special session and could not make it in time for the grand opening. I had the pleasure of meeting some movie celebrities and prominent members of the business industry like Councilor Yul Servo and Benito C. Bengzon, Jr. Director, Office of Tourism Coordination.

Socialista brings back the glamour of Remedios, Malate. For those who grew up during my time, you will recall that Remedios Malate is the home to 604 Café Gallery, formerly the Penguin Café, a well-loved place by artists. Around Remedios Circle, the creations of Larry Cruz, arguably Manila’s most successful restaurateur, predominate and each with a theme of its own. Café Adriatico is known for Spanish-based Filipino food and refined ambience, Café Havana for Cuban cooking and Hemingway-inspired cigar room, Bistro Remedios for regional Filipino delicacies, Guernicas for traditional Spanish food, and Larry’s Bar as a hangout of rich kids.

On the other side of the Remedios Circle is the Remedios extension, along which can be found Arkadia, where you can listen to some live musical acts over pizza. The Red Crab serves seafood and steaks while Tia Maria has the best Tex-Mex flavors. Dematisse is for Italian snacks while Café El Dorado is for Spanish ones.

On Friday and Saturday nights, Malate is the place to be seen. It is the place for artists, expats, and gays – a bohemian hangout. Malate has been called the center of gay night life, and has a Gay Pride Parade every year.

Today, if you visit the Remedios extension, you will still see Arkadia, Tia Maria, Café Adriatico, and Dematisse. Arkadia and Dematisse are owned and operated by Yoko and Jong. Because of the ingenuity of Yoko and Jong, a fully renovated Socialista is born in place of Red Crab. Socialista is a total party heaven. It is alive with pumping music. It is the place for fine dining and international gourmet.

MAY FESTIVAL IN THE PHILIPPINES

May is the merriest and the most beautiful month of the year. It is the season of colorful festivals and Flores de Mayo or Santacruzan is one such festival. During the month of May, the fragrance of flowers floats in the air. Pagpatak ng ulan, humahalimuyak na ang amoy ng ibat-ibang uri ng mga bulaklak. The Filipinos don’t need to stop to smell the flowers. The fragrance of sampaguitas (Philippines’ National Flower), kalachuchis, roses and other blooms, floats in the air. When the rains begin to pour after a long dry spell, flowers magically bloom overnight. And being predominantly Catholic, the Filipinos celebrate the beneficial rains by giving praise to the Blessed Virgin Mary. The townsfolk gather the colorful flowers to decorate the Parish Church altars and aisles. They bundle the blooms in exotic arrangements for the many different festivities all together referred to as the “Flores de Mayo” (Flowers of May).

Flores de Mayo History

Flores de Mayo is celebrated in the month of May in tribute to the Virgin Mary. The Santacruzan was a novena procession remembering St. Helena’s mythical finding of the cross. St. Helena was the mother of Constantine the Great. According to legends, 300 years after the death of Christ, at the age of 75, she went to Calvary to conduct a search for the Cross. After some archeological diggings at the site of the Crucifixion, she unearthed three crosses. She tested each one by making a sick servant lie on all three. The cross where the servant recovered was identified as Christ’s. St. Helena’s feast day falls on August 8 but the anniversary of the finding of the Cross is on May 3^rd, in the Philippines, this celebration took the form of the Mexican Santa Cruz de Mayo.

Nine days of prayer (a novena) in respect of the Holy Cross lead the Flores de Mayo or Santacruzan. This festival was introduced by the Spaniards in the Philippines and has since become part of Filipino traditions recognized with youth, love, and romance.

Over the years, this flower festival has lost its true fragrance, if not its spirit. In Spanish times, daughters of the wealthy were chosen by the parish cura to serve as hermanas. As sponsor or hermana mayor, they were responsible for planning the festival and for decorating Mary’s caroza and the church in preparation for the nine-day novena that precedes the big procession. They were also responsible for shouldering the various expenses associated with the festival.

The big procession is really a grandiose affair. In socially-conscious Philippines, this is called the “pabongga,” the height of ostentation. Sagalas handpicked for their wealth and beauty by the hermanas are dressed to kill, so to speak. After all, it is the hermanas reputation as sponsor of the festival that is at stake. Elegantly dressed and coiffed, these ladies adorn the procession. Not to be outdone however, the hermanas themselves come last, dressed in ternos to end all ternos, fanning themselves and smiling piously at every stop at the whole admiring, gawking town.

The Pabitin

Isang kaugalian na lubos kong kinagigiliwan ay ang “Pabitin.” After the procession, there is a pabitin that serves as a culminating activity for all the children and adults to enjoy. Pabitin is a square trellis where goodies (candies, fruits like pina and buko, etc.) are hung by strings. This trellis in turn is tied to a rope and is suspended on a strong branch or pole. The children and adults gather under the trellis and they jump as high as they can to try to pick the goodies as the trellis gets lowered to them while someone pulls it up and down until the goodies are gone. Usually they have separate pabitins for the children and the adults.

Kabayan, sana inyong naibigan ang aking sinaysay tungkol sa ating mga kaugalian ngayong buwan ng Mayo. Hala magempake na ng gamit at umuwi sa Pilipinas para muling pagbalikan ang alaala ng Santacruzan at Flores de Mayo. Magandang araw sa inyong lahat!

SEMANA SANTA

In April, just as the summer heat begins to reach its peak, the Philippines joins the rest of the Christian world in the observance of the Holy Week, also known as Semana Santa. Holy Week recalls Christ’s passion, death, and resurrection. Of Hispanic heritage, the Filipino mourns and celebrates Semana Santa, infusing it with a distinct pagan fervor.

From Ash Wednesday to Good Friday a piercing lamentation fills the air as the life of Christ is chanted in gatherings called “pabasa,” also known as “pasyon.” Participants of the pabasa recite the passion and death of Christ from the Holy Book. There are many versions of it as there are dialects. The reading is usually done by old women in a singsong in the town chapel or visita. Sometimes it is sung before home altars and electronically amplified for the townspeople.

When I was a kid, I remember Lenten season transforms the church patios in the provinces into a miniature Jerusalem. Every Sunday during the Lent thousands of devotees flock to their nearby churches to make the Stations of the Cross or the Via Crusis before fourteen crosses planted in the church courtyard.

On the sixth Sunday of Lent, the Domingo de Ramos, Christ’s entry into Jerusalem is celebrated amid cries of “Hosannah” and a colorful array of “palaspas,” made from coconut leaves artistically woven together at the base, ribboned, and delicately knotted into butterfly-like danglers simulating the palm and olive that admiring zealots waved during Christ’s entry into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday.

Lenten Procession

As a kid and up to this time, I am extremely fascinated with Holy Week processions. Natatandaan ko pa ng ako ay maliit na bata pa, I remember watching the karos (floats or carrozas) on Taft Avenue near our house. I used to cover my eyes every time the gory scenes pass by; I was particularly frightened by the Roman centurions with bulging eyes as they scourge Jesus.

Baliuag’s main Lenten attraction during holy week, is the “Prosisyon ng mga Santo.” It is a parade of 60 lavishly decorated floats. It is one of the places in Bulacan that feature magnificent antique and/or life-size images, or santo, depicting almost all the scenes of Christ’s Passion. The images have now become a living testament to the rich blend of Christian and folk traditions in the Philippine religious observance. The affluent families own the images and they dole out their own resources to finance the processions.

Penitencia (Self-Flagellation) sa Pilipinas

Isang kaugalian sa Pilipinas na malinaw na nakaukit sa aking isipan ay ang Penitencia (self-flagellation). Self-flagellation is performed during Holy Week, on Maundy Thursday and Good Friday, as a ritual re-enactment of the scourging of Jesus Christ at the pillar. Penitencia is practiced in the Philippines as a contractual sacrifice, based on a vow (panata) to God, sworn for a fixed period, usually between five and fifteen years, often during a crisis or time of difficulty, most commonly the illness of close kin. The link with health or ill-health is pervasive. Aside from the culturally important task, particularly for adult males, of sharing the suffering of Christ, the flagellant is also sharing (damay), and thus trying to ease the pain of sick relative by offering himself as a sacrifice.

Cenaculo

Isang kaugalian na aking nakagisnan ay ang pagdaraos ng Cenaculo kung Mahal na Araw. Cenaculo is a reenactment of the Passion of Christ that begins on the eve of the Holy Week (Palm Sunday or Palaspas) and ends on the night of East Sunday (Salubong). Kasama ko ang aking mga Tia at mga pinsan, dumadayo kami sa iba’t-ibang lugar sa Pasay, gaya ng Malibay, para manood ng Cenaculo. Ang Cenaculo ay parang teleserye. Sinusubaybayan mo bawat kabanata hanggang sa katapusan.

Reliving the Lenten Season in the Philippines

In the Philippines, the commemoration of Christ’s death becomes a witness to a culture bursting with life and lore. As I watch the Prosisyon, I can easily relate to the story of the Passion. The symbolisms are impeccable. I am not shy to let you know that I have aged but I am proud that I have been a part of the many beautiful Lenten rites and practices in our country. Marami akong naging karanasan na hindi maaring tumbasan ng anomang halaga ng salapi. They are priceless.

Taking Care of the Elderly

Sometimes I wonder what will happen to me when I get old. Will someone take care of me? Or will I be one of the unfortunate people who will spend Christmases and other memorable events alone or with other unfortunate abandoned elderly?

The graying population in the United States is rapidly growing. In the years to come the baby boomers would be in this group. Filipinos are no exception. As we look around, we would notice that the aging population includes a lot of Filipinos in America. The children brought their parents here to help the family as they struggle for better life.

All over the world, in rich and poor countries alike, populations are ageing – and rapidly. People everywhere are living longer and having fewer children. Consequently, societies around the globe are facing the daunting prospect of having to support huge numbers of older people with smaller families and fewer workers to put money in the pension program.

The Elderly in the Philippines

In the Philippines, living alone in the twilight of one’s life is unthinkable as it means that the family has somehow reneged on its implied duty to care for its own. Iyan ang maipagmamalaki ko sa ating bayan. Hindi ka basta itatakwil ng iyong mga mahal sa buhay kung dumating ang panahon na ikaw ay matanda na at hindi mo na kayang mabuhay na magisa. In our country, the norm is for the elderly to be taken care of by kin – chiefly spouse and/or children among the ever married and other relatives such a siblings, nephews, and nieces. Children are reared to respect their parents, and that means taking care of them when they grow old. In the same way that children, especially those who made good in life, are taught to support their whole families including parents.

But still there are times when one will see some elderly who are left wondering around with no place to stay. They end up at Golden Acres, a government institution that cares for senior citizens aged 60 and above, both male and female, who are abandoned and needy. When you visit the Golden Acres, however, it is a place you would not want to be when you grow old. The facility does not provide the acceptable amenities to do the activities of daily living and live a comfortable elderly life.

As we all know, the absence of nursing homes in the Philippines is evident because our culture dictates that we take care of our old folks. Earlier studies found the idea of institutionalization of the elderly as “almost taboo.” Lately, however, there is the seeming acceptability of homes for the aged in the Philippines. This is very true in the United States. When the old Filipino folks in America can no longer live independently, they end up in nursing homes or adult family homes.

Aging in America

The defining social change that is taking place in this country is the aging of America. Studies show that the number of people over 65 has grown tenfold since the turn of the last century. But we’re only at the beginning of the curve – the baby boomers are moving across the demographic chart in a huge wave. The aging of the American society has created new demands and problems. Currently a quarter of all households are caring for an older relative.

Unlike in the Philippines, the U.S. government provides a range of programs that offer services and opportunities for older Americans, especially those at risk of losing their independence. The government has programs to help vulnerable older persons to remain their own homes by providing supportive services. The government has a range of services including nutrition, senior center, health promotion and homemaker services. They put emphasis on elder rights programs, including the nursing home ombudsman program, legal services, outreach, public benefit and insurance counseling and elder abuse prevention efforts. Program funding is allocated to each State Agency on Aging to plan, develop and coordinate systems of supportive in-home and community-based services.

Kahit malungkot isipin na mahirap tumanda sa America dahil kadalasan ay napapabayaan ng mga kamaganak ang kanilang magulang, it’s still the best place to live as an elderly dahil suportado ang mga elderly dito sa America.

Salamat sa lahat, Inay

Today, the nation celebrates Mother’s Day. Without being biased, Filipino mothers deserve more accolades than their counterparts in the United States. In the United States, children become independent when they reach the age of 18. Here in America, we have financial aid and other sources of revenues for the children to go to college. We don’t have such financial assistance in the Philippines. I have seen Filipino mothers shed tears to help their children. Kahit gumapang sa kahirapan ang isang ina, maitaguyod lamang ang kanyang mga anak at mapagtapos ang mga ito sa pagaaral. Freddie Aguilar’s song, “Anak,” is an excellent tribute to Filipino mothers.

During my elementary days in the 50’s, the kids would come to school with pink cadena de amor, pinned on their shirts or blouses while others wear white cadena de amor. The pink color would symbolize that the wearer’s mother was still alive and the white symbolized that their mothers had passed away. I feel sad because my mother passed away in 1993. I envy those who still have the opportunity to let their mothers know how much they love her. I wish I could bring back the times when I could pick up the phone on Mother’s Day and call my mom to let her know how much I love her. Filipinos are not very vocal and showy about their feelings and emotions. We only realize the need to let our mothers know how much we love her after she’s gone. Very often we would say, “if I could only bring back the time.” My dear readers, before it’s too late say it now, “Mom, I love you!” “Inay, mahal kita. Kahit marami akong pagkukulang hindi mo ako pinagkaitan ng iyong pagibig at pagkalinga.”
“Salamat sa lahat, Inay!”

Learning From Our Past

Trivia: The official residence of the President of the United States is called the White House. There is a rumor that if Obama wins the election, the name of the official residence of the President of the United States will be changed. What do you think will it be called? (Check your answer at the end of my thoughts for today, Learning From our Past.”

Today is no ordinary day. It is a new day. A new day for new beginnings, hope for those who had little hope, and yesterday is a reminder of the past. But past is part of our life. Each day we grow in wisdom because we have learned something from the past. Kung meron tayong mga pagkakamali na nagawa kahapon, sana magsilbing aral ito sa atin. Today is a new day and we have a chance to correct our mistakes. New beginnings are a chance to remember the best of the past and dream new dreams for tomorrow. With the start of a new day, our hearts should be filled with the hope of future brighter than the past.

I have high regard for Filipinos. Kahit anong daming pagsubok at dagok ang dumarating sa ating buhay, hindi tayo nawawalan ng pagasa. Sa mga dagok ng buhay na nagiging bahagi ng ating nakaraan, lalo tayong nagiging matibay sa ating paniniwala na mayroong pang bukas tayong haharapin. Most Filipinos live by faith. We are able to handle all the challenges that come our way. Panibagong araw, panibagong buhay, panibagong pagasa.

Mabuhay ang Filipino!

Answer to Trivia: Black House